It catches up with you

*sigh* yesterday was my oldest son's 21st birthday. He chose to spend this milestone staying home playing video games and hanging out with his girlfriend and a couple of other friends.

It made me think...

At 21 I had already been married and was separated from my alcoholic husband.
At 21 I had a 2 year old (my oldest son).
At 21 I was working 2 jobs to support my small family.